The issue of affair is not a simple matter. The base for solving affair issues is how to treat anger and hurt. If these are not dealt with, it is almost impossible to solve an affair problem. We believe this is why general marriage counseling shows low success rates.
[Steps to an Affair Problem Solution]
Step 1. Anger Treatment and Trauma Therapy (mandatory course without exception)
Step 2. Dealing with couple problem, sex problem, family problem and child related problem
Step 3. Enable couple to live as a happy couple.
These 3 steps need to be followed so that affair problem can be solved and such tragedy will not happen again. Then a couple can live a happy life again.
It can take at least 1 month or upto 3 years as each case differs with such diversity. Therefore, estimated required time for counselling can only be measured on the basis of the first counseling session.
Many issues such as couple's issue, sex, family, personality and other matters need to be analysed before the solution can be customized. Also the willingness of the client and the cooperation of the spouse are the major deciding factors in judging the time period for overall counseling sessions. Another factor is the degree of the anger and trauma.
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