When a husband’s affair is revealed, the wife becomes
enraged, feeling insecure and inferior to the adulteress. Especially the
thought that her husband had an affair because of her own ill treatment prevails.
Furthermore, she would blame herself and feel painful. The wife feels that the adulteress
is more attractive and would comfort her husband much better in mental and
sexual ways.
The wife should know that she cannot be
compared with the adulteress. She is far more precious to her husband than the
adulteress. The adulteress is only an object of sex. There are some, very
stupid husbands who are addicted to sex and cannot think properly. They think
that sexual pleasure is all that matters in life and it is equivalent to love.
This is why they think that they are in love with their sex object, the adulteress.
These men can be the most stupid men in the whole world. Therefor it is
important for the wife to know the difference between herself and an adulteress.
In addition, the adulteress herself should know what a fool she is to think
that she is in love.
Now, here is the difference.
First, let’s look at the husband’s viewpoint
[Husband’s recognition]
Legal
Protection -- Social recognition -- Mutual Responsibility
Wife --------- v ------------------ v ------------------------ v
Adulteress — x ---------------- x ------------------------x
Wife --------- v ------------------ v ------------------------ v
Adulteress — x ---------------- x ------------------------x
Responsibility
--- Idea of Family --- Duty
Wife ---------- v --------------------- v --------------- v
Adulteress — x -------------------- x ------------- v (sex)
Wife ---------- v --------------------- v --------------- v
Adulteress — x -------------------- x ------------- v (sex)
The wife is protected by the law, is recognized
by the society and has the right over her husband. She deserves to be happy with
her family and has the responsibility to dedicate and sacrifice for her
husband. In other world she has a responsibility to be happy with her husband.
On the contrary, the adulteress cannot be
protected by the law, is a target of social blame and cannot claim any
responsibility. She is an object of a man’s secret life. Her duty is to provide
sex. The man or husband has no other responsibility other than just the cost of
sex. How can anyone think that an adulteress can take the place of a wife?
An adulteress is like a sex toy for the
husband. The wife should know this. The adulteress herself should know this. Real
love does not exist in an affair.
[Woman’s Happiness]
Happiness --- wife --- adulteress
as a wife ------- v ------- x
as a mother ---- v ------ x
as a woman ---- v ------ v (sexual pleasure)
[Woman’s Happiness]
Happiness --- wife --- adulteress
as a wife ------- v ------- x
as a mother ---- v ------ x
as a woman ---- v ------ v (sexual pleasure)
There are three types happiness for woman. She
gets married and dedicates herself to become happy in these three happiness. The
wife should be happy as a wife, mother and a woman. She feels happy when she is
being loved with such affection from her husband for the couple’s happiness and
the pleasure of sex. Even though she may not be happy now, she will still makes
efforts to ensure and maintain her future happiness.
The adulteress cannot possess happiness in the
same as the wife does. The man she is love with is not married to her legally.
And there are no children between the two of them so this relationship does not
guarantee the mother’s happiness. The only one think remains for the
adulteress, a sexual pleasure without a genuine love or happiness in her
relationship. This is why the affair is nothing but only sexual pleasure. They
tend to think that it is love, which is a huge mistake or delusion. The husband’s
passion and dedication in the affair relationship is that he hopes to have sex
with the adulteress again in the future.
It is so evident that the wife does not have to
feel insecure while comparing herself to the adulteress. Do not forget though
you may be suffering from your husband’s affair, but the adulteress is only the
adulteress, a sex toy.
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