Difference between a wife and an adultress

When a husband’s affair is revealed, the wife becomes enraged, feeling insecure and inferior to the adulteress. Especially the thought that her husband had an affair because of her own ill treatment prevails. Furthermore, she would blame herself and feel painful. The wife feels that the adulteress is more attractive and would comfort her husband much better in mental and sexual ways.

The wife should know that she cannot be compared with the adulteress. She is far more precious to her husband than the adulteress. The adulteress is only an object of sex. There are some, very stupid husbands who are addicted to sex and cannot think properly. They think that sexual pleasure is all that matters in life and it is equivalent to love. This is why they think that they are in love with their sex object, the adulteress. These men can be the most stupid men in the whole world. Therefor it is important for the wife to know the difference between herself and an adulteress. In addition, the adulteress herself should know what a fool she is to think that she is in love.

Now, here is the difference.

First, let’s look at the husband’s viewpoint

[Husband’s recognition]

Legal Protection -- Social recognition -- Mutual Responsibility
Wife --------- v ------------------ v ------------------------ v
Adulteress — x ---------------- x ------------------------x

Responsibility --- Idea of Family --- Duty
Wife ---------- v --------------------- v --------------- v
Adulteress — x -------------------- x ------------- v (sex)

The wife is protected by the law, is recognized by the society and has the right over her husband. She deserves to be happy with her family and has the responsibility to dedicate and sacrifice for her husband. In other world she has a responsibility to be happy with her husband.

On the contrary, the adulteress cannot be protected by the law, is a target of social blame and cannot claim any responsibility. She is an object of a man’s secret life. Her duty is to provide sex. The man or husband has no other responsibility other than just the cost of sex. How can anyone think that an adulteress can take the place of a wife?

An adulteress is like a sex toy for the husband. The wife should know this. The adulteress herself should know this. Real love does not exist in an affair.
[Woman’s Happiness]
Happiness --- wife --- adulteress
as a wife ------- v ------- x
as a mother ---- v ------ x
as a woman ---- v ------ v (sexual pleasure)

There are three types happiness for woman. She gets married and dedicates herself to become happy in these three happiness. The wife should be happy as a wife, mother and a woman. She feels happy when she is being loved with such affection from her husband for the couple’s happiness and the pleasure of sex. Even though she may not be happy now, she will still makes efforts to ensure and maintain her future happiness.

The adulteress cannot possess happiness in the same as the wife does. The man she is love with is not married to her legally. And there are no children between the two of them so this relationship does not guarantee the mother’s happiness. The only one think remains for the adulteress, a sexual pleasure without a genuine love or happiness in her relationship. This is why the affair is nothing but only sexual pleasure. They tend to think that it is love, which is a huge mistake or delusion. The husband’s passion and dedication in the affair relationship is that he hopes to have sex with the adulteress again in the future.

It is so evident that the wife does not have to feel insecure while comparing herself to the adulteress. Do not forget though you may be suffering from your husband’s affair, but the adulteress is only the adulteress, a sex toy.