Do Not Hesitate For Sex Therapy

Without any effort, how can a couple sex be enjoyable or happy? Do you think that your partner will make efforts for you? Don’t be a fool! No partner will make effort for you. If there has been such efforts, there would not be any sex related trouble there. If you feel that there is a trouble, your partner also feels the same way. If you really need to talk to understand this between the couple, well, maybe you are not much interested in each other.

Do you feel ashamed to bring up the issue all because you are a woman and that you will be blamed for the current situation? Or are you afraid that your pride will be hurt by bringing up the issue and that you might be belittled because of your ignorance?

What is a couple sex? It is for the happiness an enjoyment of the couple so that they can spend all their lives together. If you find a problem in it, it means that you want to find a solution. If you have any sex related problem, it is important that you know what the solutions are. It should always be noted that most of the couple problems rise from minor sex troubles. Are you having an affair problem because you are cheated or you are cheating? Have you given up having sex with your true partner while it is possible?

If you are hesitating even though you feel there is problem, think about your courage before blaming your partner. It is dangerous to point the finger to one of the couple while couple problem involves both the partner. Affair problems in fact starts from small sex troubles most of the time.

What are the efforts that you have made? A lot of my clients say that they have:

1. researched and looked in to a lot of cases and have applied these method
2. got advices from people around and put them into practice.
3. devoted in the couple sex itself.

Of course there are some who say that they have not done anything specific.

In the first case, information is information and the cases only apply to each case.
Other cases can never be same as yours. Do you think that other couples have same physical details or ideas about sex? Less information is more. Misleading information do more harm than good. In addition, have you shared the information with your partner?

In the second case, your acquaintances are not sex and couple experts, are they? They are no better than yourself. You are just appealing your hardships but it will not provide you a solution to your problems. May be you are avoiding your problem. This definitely is not an effort to find a solution to your problem.

The third case, you were trying very hard on something that has not worked before and that will not work in the future. Why continue sex practice that already is a problem itself? This will only make the problem to become larger and bigger. It will only make matters worse.

So, if you are having a sex related problem with your partner, just send us an e-mail.

Couple sex is not something that can be understood. It is a practical and real thing. Making ineffective effort will only make the matters worse and will only waste your time and energy. For a true solution, find out what the real problem is. Than what to do can be decided later. It doesn’t matter if you are a husband or a wife.