Why Husbands Repeat Cheating

For extramarital affair, there is no only-once-in-a-life-time. This means once a married man cheats, he will cheat again. This is why essential solution is needed so that this evil repetition won't happen again.

We have seen so many wives suffering because they are cheated over and over again.

- Husbands cheat again even after admitting his fault.

- Husbands cheat again even after his wife has forgiven him.

- Husbands cheat multiple times.

Another reason why husbands keep cheating is when they are verbally or physically violent, sex addicted and are having personality disorder.

Most of the time, wives endure and focus on their children and do not solve the problem properly. In general, husbands cheating is due to various reasons such as personality, couple or sex problems. However, it is highly likely that the cheater is unaware of his misbehavior. Even though he finds his reasons, he keeps repeating cheating because he feels more comfortable and pleased in doing so rather than making efforts to amend his doings. When a husband repeatedly cheats on his wife, she experiences lowered self-pride, less happiness and aggravated psychological rage and hurt. This makes husband to be even far away from his wife and he will not find her attractive. He will strengthen the idea that she is just a member of the family; mother of his children.

Adulteress gives him mental satisfaction and sex which is not comparable to the feeling he can get from his wife. Thus wife becomes less sexy. This is why cheating husbands blame his wife saying that it is all her fault and that he feels mental fulfillment from the adulteress. When this happens, husbands show increased tendency to solve his mental uneasiness through sex and finds his sex with adulteress is no longer mentally or sexually pleasing. This will make him to seek for a former or new adulteress.

In short, husbands seek mental fulfillment and sexual pleasure from an adulteress because he cannot find it from his wife. However, when he fails to do this with his adulteress, he will go for another and he will keep doing so over and over again. This is why husbands cheating cannot be stopped when this problem is not properly and completely treated.