Sexless After Forgiving Husband? - Wife Prone To Extramarital Affair!

Husband repenting his fault and asks for forgiveness and wife forgives him. However, this is not a true forgiveness. A true forgiveness is possible when the husband truly understands and acknowledges himself of his mistake and the pain of his wife and when the wife wishes to have some closure to her burden. If there is no forgiveness in its true sense, possibility of other future problems lies within the couple.

Forgiveness only in words will lead to small and frequent quarrels, anger and rage. One tend to think that time will solve the problem and things will be forgotten with it. All these might lead to sexless caused by the husband side.

In such a case, the wife would say "You did so well with her! You can't do with me?" The wife will be very angry and will lose confidence in herself. Especially when the wife wants sex but the husband refuses it, she would feel despised and would think that she would rather die than live like that. As time goes by, it is highly likely that she would have affair in turn.

Isn't is so natural that when one's husband is in an affair, one would think of being in other man's arms? Sexless couple is already a big problem and when the relation turns from bad to worse, this will result in the wife's affair. Today there are many wives who are involved in extramarital affairs and I believe this has a lot to do with being sexless after the husband affair. This is much more serious than one might think.

Therefore, when the husband is forgiven, couple sex has to be recovered. Life does change when the true forgiveness is given. The wife changes. Sex becomes better and as she becomes happy so does her husband. A new life starts for both of them as a synergy effect. They say "sorry" to each other. They wonder why they did not understand each other and the conversation becomes so fulfilling. Such were the words of those who had overcome their spouse's affairs. They say that their true love has been discovered after paying such a big cost. Their lives becomes happier.

If you are wanting to forgive because of the children, it is not a true forgiveness. Sometimes forgiveness out of wish to ease the burden will bring gratitude from others. So forgive truly and don't think that time will do everything.