How Rage From Affair Is Treated

It is so natural that the rage from affair takes place. If no so, it can be interpreted as a state of psychological divorce. Without rage from affair, the couple is no different from being divorced.

Unfortunately, most of the rage from affair, which is such a grave matter as to break couple relation and even a family, is not treated. This will eventually bring harder and difficult couple relations and the happiness of life can be lost. One with untreated rage from affair will live all because of the children or because there is no alternative choice. One would even think that it is one's luck, a fate and give millions of reasons to justify the situation. Rage from affair will disturb normal daily lives, increase doubt and distrust, anger and quarrels.

The way that we treat rage is rather simple but it involves complicated psychological therapy. As an affair counselling experts, we do not aim the psychological treatment. Rather, we focus on realistic solution and apply my "Principle of Affair". Many of our clients who believed that their rage could not be treated, have seen their rages treated through affair counselling.

The main reason of rage from affair is the sense of betrayal. Rage from affair is equal to "Post Traumatic Stress" and the intensity is so big. Because one has relied on the spouse, and that because one has trusted the other, whole marriage turns to be a lie and the future happiness and love is taken away. Whole life seems meaningless.

These all brings sense of betrayal, one would want to deny the situation psychologically and deep within mixed feeling is formed. This is why there is attack on the cheating spouse, a doubt, a fight. Psychologically, the cheated wants to reassure the love through rage.

Thus, it is important to make the cheated to understand that it is not the spouse’s affair that brought betrayal but the instinct and the mistake of illusion. I am not covering for the affair itself. I always makes it sure that the cheating spouse is the only one responsible for the affair and it is definitely wrong.

By understanding that the affair is wrong but it is not the act of betrayal, rage from affair can be said to have treated 80%. For this to be possible, we have developed the "principle of affair" through which idea of husband and the mind of a wife can be understood.

The remaining 20% of rage is the hurt from affair. This is the portion that the cheating spouse has to treat for the cheated. It can be cured through mutual care and love. If the couple is already divorced, this 20% rage has to be treated only.

Therefore, following steps are done to treat rage and to develop couple happiness.

1. Understanding what the problem is with the affair.
2. Understanding why there is feeling of betrayal and the problem with it.
3. Attaining psychological calmness through rage treatment.
4. Psychological changes for couple reunion and happiness.
5. Hurt from affair treatment in couple happiness.

Once the rage from affair is treated, one can discuss the faults and responsibilities of the affair. Only then, the coupe can develop a new relationship with renewed body and mind. With this method, we have treated over 90% of the couples successfully.

They said they are enjoying even happier lives than in their honeymoon period, after having been treated. Rage from affair has to be treated. Without this, any other solution to affair is useless. If one is divorced but the rage is not treated, it would be impossible for her/him to lead a happy life. Rage is a severe hurt. This is the reason why regardless of being still in marriage or not, the rage from affair has to be treated. Otherwise one will be unhappy whatever the life can be.