According to the psychology theory, man acts before he thinks while woman thinks before she acts. Thus a love can be created because of this different psychological operation. But this principle cannot be applied when analyzing an affair case.
Affair Psychology Hypothesis 1.
When a man is in a relationship with a woman, his sexual instinct instantly operates before he thinks or value anything else. A woman’s emotion starts to operate before her sexual instinct gets stirred up. In other words, a man does not possess the same degree of emotion as a woman does. He rather has his own value and idea. It’s a matter of what comes first within their mind. Therefore a man forms an idea to suit his woman and loves her with his whole being and a woman loves when her mind and body are moving together.
When a man is in a relationship with a woman, his sexual instinct instantly operates before he thinks or value anything else. A woman’s emotion starts to operate before her sexual instinct gets stirred up. In other words, a man does not possess the same degree of emotion as a woman does. He rather has his own value and idea. It’s a matter of what comes first within their mind. Therefore a man forms an idea to suit his woman and loves her with his whole being and a woman loves when her mind and body are moving together.
Affair Psychology Hypothesis 2.
During dating period, a man will become passionate which stemmed from his sexual instinct. A woman feels love within her mind. After the marriage everything changes. A man loves a woman with his whole with his own his idea. A woman will be passionate out of her motherly love.
During dating period, a man will become passionate which stemmed from his sexual instinct. A woman feels love within her mind. After the marriage everything changes. A man loves a woman with his whole with his own his idea. A woman will be passionate out of her motherly love.
Affair Psychology Hypothesis 3.
Because a man does not have emotion as a woman does, he doesn’t get easily hurt. Since having his own idea and value, he tends to become more vulnerable to stress and his stress doesn’t evolve to become depression. When a man under stress he wants to escape from it. Due to his own instinct, he wants to find a way to ease that stress. As for woman she doesn’t get stressed but hurt within her mind. So she gets depressed easily. When her hurts are piled up and when it becomes too much to handle, depression occurs and she hurts within herself.
Because a man does not have emotion as a woman does, he doesn’t get easily hurt. Since having his own idea and value, he tends to become more vulnerable to stress and his stress doesn’t evolve to become depression. When a man under stress he wants to escape from it. Due to his own instinct, he wants to find a way to ease that stress. As for woman she doesn’t get stressed but hurt within her mind. So she gets depressed easily. When her hurts are piled up and when it becomes too much to handle, depression occurs and she hurts within herself.
Affair Psychology Hypothesis 4.
When a man is stressed, he would normally activates his instinct to get away from the stress immediately and feel comfortable. He would seek whatever means he has. When he is deprived of his pleasure and fun, he feels stressed and will activate his instinct to recover them. Thus a man will do whatever he can to get away from stress and maintain his pleasure.
When a man is stressed, he would normally activates his instinct to get away from the stress immediately and feel comfortable. He would seek whatever means he has. When he is deprived of his pleasure and fun, he feels stressed and will activate his instinct to recover them. Thus a man will do whatever he can to get away from stress and maintain his pleasure.
Affair Psychology Hypothesis 5.
If a man hurts a woman, she will want consolation in her mind. When comforted by her man, she will take that sense of comfort as love.
If a man hurts a woman, she will want consolation in her mind. When comforted by her man, she will take that sense of comfort as love.
Affair Psychology Hypothesis 6.
A woman gets married because she loves her man with her mind and that’s why she can have sex with him. A man has sex with a woman out of sexual instinct and man’s sexual pleasure is mistaken as love and he gets married to the woman.
A woman gets married because she loves her man with her mind and that’s why she can have sex with him. A man has sex with a woman out of sexual instinct and man’s sexual pleasure is mistaken as love and he gets married to the woman.
Affair Psychology Hypothesis 7.
When an affair happens, the wife rages because she feels that her husband’s mind and love are poured into the adulteress. In fact, a man has an affair because he enjoys “sex” with the adulteress and it has nothing to do with mind. However when the wife has an affair, the husband gets mad for the fact that she had “sex” with the other partner. He can’t think the other factor of his wife’s affair that she felt loved by the other partner, which was more important for the wife. She was consoled by that man and having sex with that man was only an expression of her mistaken love.
When an affair happens, the wife rages because she feels that her husband’s mind and love are poured into the adulteress. In fact, a man has an affair because he enjoys “sex” with the adulteress and it has nothing to do with mind. However when the wife has an affair, the husband gets mad for the fact that she had “sex” with the other partner. He can’t think the other factor of his wife’s affair that she felt loved by the other partner, which was more important for the wife. She was consoled by that man and having sex with that man was only an expression of her mistaken love.
In this sense, man and woman have different point of view and rage and hurt deepens as the misinterpretation and misunderstanding occur between them .
The above mentioned 7 hypothesis are the bases upon the affair theory. From this principle, prevention of affair, and solution to affair problem and related methods are developed. Also, as the affair problems are solved, the above mentioned 7 hypothesis proved to be true in most cases.
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