Women, you are the center of your own world!

Be the center of your own world! These are the words that I have been told and I have told to my children over and over again. For you only live once.

As you live your life especially for women, marriage and love for their husband will change women to becoming a dependent person. Everyone has their own unique talents. But housekeeping is not something that is highly praised among those talents. This is especially so for those women with no high social background.

There was a pretty young twenty-two year old piano instructor. She graduated from a community college. She was a girl living next door. She looked pail that day. I had a strange feeling so I asked her what the matter was. She said that she had an abortion and the father was a married man. He was separated.

She said he will divorce his wife and marry her soon. How foolish she was! Such a naive young lady! She totally believed him. She was having pains on her breasts as the milk started to come out. She was enduring all the physical pains. The married man was a well-known professor of a music college. He was womanizing after the young ladies! I had to spend a whole day to talk her out of that relationship. It was so obvious for me to see what that man really was all about. This young lady also didn't realize how precious she was.

She gave herself to a man of high profile while thinking that he would value her and that she would be happy with a divorced man as she views herself  with such low self-esteem. Even her mother supporting her idea. What went wrong? The ignorant mother was ruining her daughter's life. This was a shocking reality.

Everyone is precious. No one deserves to be underestimated or looked down upon.

No one should be left alone while hurting themselves! When you cherish yourself, others will do the same to you. If you don’t treat yourself right and when you look to men for relationship, they will stay away from you. They would feel burdened. Eventually they will abuse you as time goes by.

Love thyself! Be in love with you! This is much better than falling in love with someone else and still feeling lonely. I do not imply divorce here. How strange human mind can be sometimes. Those who deserted you will look back at you when you become indifferent, ignoring and not caring anymore.

If you have so many stories to tell at the end of your life, you have more chances of saying that your life had been fun at your death bed. The only person who abuse you and think less of you is your husband. You have lost your esteem and confidence. Think back how you were before marriage. Now stand up and start a new life, a wonderful life that you never dreamed of.