What if my husband is still having an affair?

This is something that many wives go through even after their husbands’ affair is ended. The wife feels troubled and frustrated as she cannot trust her husband any longer because of her rage, suspicion and sense of betrayal.  

Generally, a wife would think that things will be normal once the husband stops his own affair but in reality she is still under a great deal of stress because her emotional hurt has not been healed.
In addition, the husband would intentionally try to please his wife so it won’t be natural between their relationships. She would feel uncomfortable and unfamiliar interacting with her husband.

In this case, the husband is mentally under stress too. All of these will make the wife and husband more frustrated and angry. Then the husband will try to avoid his wife and their relation will become worse.

If you are troubled even after the affair is stopped, you should be coming to a counseling session for recovering your relationship with your spouse. Both the husband and the wife have to try to make a better relationship and thus will be able to live a happier couple life.