Sex Addiction Is Serious Disease for Men

Men’s sex Addiction can destroy families and expand into serious social problems. Especially not many addicted men themselves and their wives are aware of the disease. Usually, these men tend to be womanizers. Sadly, these men are very family oriented and well accepted in the communities but they have strong obsession for porno whereas refraining from couple sex. They want to have sex with other women especially in threesome or swapping and in many cases have perverted tastes.

Here are some of the characteristics of men addicted to sex.

- The husband curses and uses violence when the affair is revealed and does not stop the relation
- Sex activities with multiples of women
- Frequent sleep in other places than his home
- Keeps justifying his affair and does not repent
- Asks threesome and swapping to the wife continuously
- Thinks that sex is the happiness of one's life

This all can be interpreted as obsession towards sex and if this is not satisfied, this obsession would become tremendous stress and men tend to release it whatever it takes.

The final stage, the most serious and destructive sex addiction would be to have another man to have sex with his wife and enjoys it to commit rape against any women relatives, his own daughter or unknown. The sex addicts tries whatever the means they to give their wives sexual pleasure and try their best in designing the act of sex. The sex addicts are brilliant in justifying this sex and through sex, they feel strong desire to live and regard sex as the most important factor in happiness. Their day will start with sex and will finish by sex.

One of the characteristics is that the addicts flock together whereas show strong denial towards those who oppose their behaviors. Look at the people around them. In some way, human relation has to do with sexual pleasure. Those couples who practice swapping are already in a serious sex addict condition. Both the husband and the wife are addicted. They admire sex and will justify their action until the destruction is on the way.

In some cases, husband shows drastic measures to their wives who oppose and controls their sex behaviors. In this case the idea of family and wife has been substituted with idea of sex. His friends and enemies are classified by the standard of his sex.

Thus, sex addiction of a man is a dreadful disease. A lot of husbands who are having an affair, shows symptoms of initial stage of sex addiction and if left untreated, there will be destruction in the end. Sex addiction has to be treated. However, it is a stark reality that there is no specialized authority who treat this. In fact, Sex addition is not regarded as important as other family or social issues.

For clients whose husband's affair cause is sex addition, the solution has to be designed differently. If the sex addition of the husband is not treated, it cannot be a solution.

In an affair problem where the husband shows sex addiction, followings are the general stages of treatment

1. Rage therapy for wife
2. Psychological calmness of the wife and understanding
and learning to cope with the husband sex addiction
3. Mind therapy of the wife and recovering the self-pride
4. Changes of wife in and out
5. Sex addiction therapy for husband and changes in husband
6. Recovering new couple sex relation
7. Couple Happiness.

Step 2, 5 and 6 is to treat husband's sex addiction.

Sex addiction therapy should be designed carefully otherwise the addiction might grow larger. Sex addiction of the husband must be treated otherwise it will lead to the destruction of the wife and the children, and family.