Excessive sex desire is one of the sex related
problems. Sex addictions involves uncontrollable obsession of sex which is
caused by psychological uneasiness and stress that can be only solved through
having sex or releasing sex desire. The addiction of course has the tendency to
repeat itself and it is a matter of instinct.
Some people think that having sex several times
a day means sex addiction. However, frequencies or time period of activities
related to sex has nothing to do with sex addiction. Rather they are related to
excessive sexual desire.
Severe excessive sexual desire can be treated
with hormone treatment together with proper understanding of sex and amending
the sex energy in both the body and psychological ways.
However, sex addiction is a totally different
issue. When sex desires occur, instant uneasiness arouses. For women, they feel
psychological irritation whereas men, stress. They feel obsessed to have sex to
be relieved from these feelings and their instinct leads them to have sex with
whoever they can.
In fact, it is a disease. In the initial stage
of sex addiction, the addicted do feel guilty and remorse and even swear not to
do it again. However, as they repeat themselves, they start to build up
justification to find ways to release their psychological problems by having
sex. The problem here is that the sex addicted finds sex as the one and only
way to relieve their stress and problem.
One thing very particular with sex addiction is
that it is easy for a spouse of the addict to be exposed to sex addiction. In
fact the odds are very high as the sex has to involve the partner. One problem
can be that it is the spouse that can solve the addiction as it is matter of
sex. A lot of people are sex addicted secretly and live with that as it is the
most private thing.
One mistake that the sex addicts do not realize
is that they regard themselves to be only having large appetite for sex. In
reality most of them think themselves as special. Sex addiction therapy
requires a decent and detailed process which should involve the treatment of
idea on conscious level.
Sex addiction poses as a massive problem to
society and to the family but is not dealt openly and left untouched. One thing
I have felt by treating sex addicts is that the therapy differs between genders
and that it is only the spouse alone that can cure the addiction.
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