Affair Evolves When Repeated

It is so natural that the rage occurs when the extramarital affair is revealed. However, it is not well known that the affair tends to be evolved. Most of the time, the cheated focuses on why the cheater did what he or she did. Frequent fights occur and as a result both the cheater and the cheated are hurt. Sense of betrayal will bring more serious problems.

It would be fortunate if the cheater truly understands the mistakes and asks for an sincere apology. However, most of the times the cheater would want to get away from the stress and starts to be careful. The affair teaches the cheater to be more careful and to avoid stress. The cheater would try to avoid being caught the next time.

The cheater’s simple begging is only from the intention of being away from the stress and trouble and usually the cheated wants to cover up the situation. The couple will live normally as if nothing happened. In this case, the affair is due to be repeated most likely.  

We have seen many cases where the repeated affair is caused from the wrong measures taken at the initial incident. The cheaters had been teaching themselves how to cheat “better” next time. The rage, fights, quarrels and even violence cause the affair to evolve itself. Therefore it is very important to treat rage first and with a clear and cool head the cause of the affair has to be analyzed so that the further affair would not occur once and for all.

This is the only way to prevent additional affair problems. Again it is not wise to solve the affair problem by the couple’s effort alone. Rage and fights will only teach the affair to be evolved.