Sex Closely Related In An Affair Problem

It is not an exaggeration to say that the affair problem is sex problem. If this not well understood, it is not possible to solve the affair problem. In other words, couple sex solution is the basis of an affair problem. The affair problem according to the analysis of the cases and most of the time evolves as the couple problem occurs. The cheater makes excuses saying that she or he fell in love with the adulterer or adulteress and say that they care and comfort each other and that they share common interest and so forth.

However, these excuses are the one of the ways to have sex with each other. In fact these words actually mean that they want to love each other since they had sex together. They came to understand each other because they had sex. They came to care and comfort each other because they had sex. If you reverse it and apply it to the couple relation it can also mean that they are not loving each other or they don’t care or understand each other for they are not enjoying sex each other.

Thus one can say an affair problem is closely related to couple’s sex problem. In other words, the adulterer / adulteress relation is nothing but having sex and without sex there is nothing there in it. Why do you rage, feel pain and get hurt? An affair can be solved quite simply but the problem is that no one really knows how. It is absolutely possible to feel loving again and be happy in life while having happy sex with your husband or wife.

In fact there are couples married for decades but still do not lose the feelings for each other. Our clients tell us that this is not possible and that they had been sexless for years. Married couples that have been married over 15 years enjoying sex three times a day and they still have feelings of love for each other, not to mention mutual understanding and caring. This is the couple’s happiness. Whether you believe it or not is not important because from the counseling results, there are so many happy couples who have already experienced this.

“How did you do it” “What is your counseling method or theory that you use?”

“How can it be possible that our couple relation has turned?”

Well, these are the things that are expected to happen during the course of affair counseling. One other thing about couple sex is the amount of intercourse or the duration of sex is not important at all. Sex does not mean simple act alone. Couple need to be taught to have proper and happy sex. Sex is neither secretive matter nor technical issue. If you deny that the affair problem is sex problem, then I can tell you the affair problem will never be solved.