This happens in case when the wife continuously
give stress to the husband by her repetitive doubting words, rage and betrayal.
When the husband’s affair is revealed, the husband might ask for forgiveness
and swear that it will never happen again.
However, the wife, in her rage, anger and sense
of betrayal, continuously adds stress to her husband and in the end the husband
decides that he can take it no more.
Generally, when the husband asks for a divorce,
he does not really mean it. He is asking for a divorce in order to get away
from the stress he gets from the reactions of his wife after his affair is
revealed.
However, this will aggravate the wife with more
stress, which will in turn become a stress to the husband and he will of course
judge that his wife is impossible. Then he will ask for divorce even if he was contributing
the problem.
This is actually an emotional conflict and it
became worse after all. Such couples will now face a bigger problem than the
affair problem, a mutual hatred and rage. When properly mentored at the initial
stage of affair problem, it would have been most likely that the couple could be
happy. But as they become extremely emotional in their conflict, both husband
and wife have done more damages to the degree they can be restored. They are
killing each other. However, it is never too late. Both husband and wife have
to try and get counseling seriously to recover and restore their relationship.
If this is not possible, there would be no
choice but a divorce, with uneasy feelings for each other and scars impossible
to be healed for both of them. In addition, it would be difficult to find
another partner after divorce with these unhealed scar. It would be impossible
for them to find a proper partner. However, if you take courage and invest to
ease the hatred and rage and also regain trust and love, it will be possible
for you to have happiness in marriage life again. Your choice can make all the difference.
So what will you choice be?
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