Surprisingly enough, many wives cannot cope with
their husbands’ repeated affairs. At first, a husband swears that he will never
cheat again. The wife trusts in him and tries her best as a wife again and live
a normal daily lives. However, when he repeats affair and it is exposed, the
wife will fight and struggle in hurts and sense of betrayal. She is lost not
knowing what to do with utter helplessness.
Now the husband says sorry in a casual way to
justify himself also blaming the wife. The wife then does not know how to fight
back. At this point the wife becomes totally disoriented. This vicious cycle
goes on every time this is repeated, the less seriously the husband takes it the
deeper the wife’s desperation gets.
Now the wife is in a constant anxiety that her
husband will cheat again at any time. Having exposed to wife on his affair, the
husband will now openly cheat. And if exposed again, he will only make another
sheer excuse by saying that he is sorry. The biggest problem here is that the wife has
lost all her self-esteem and confidence. She is now obsessed with her husband
and even dependent on him. She will become depressed and if not cured, she will
live with such oppressed feeling until she dies. This is a self-destruction. This family will
end up becoming father and husband centered and the wife and the children will
be affected greatly.
Then why does the husband keep on cheating his
wife? Do you overlook his fault intentionally Are you worried about other
people’s opinion? If that is the case, then you are killing yourself. Take
courage and don’t be concerned about others any more. With the help of an
affair expert, you will be able to gain your lost confidence in yourself and
will restore couple relationship and become a happy couple.
It should be noted the true happiness comes
from the equality between the husband and wife. If you are dependent on your
spouse, there is no way that your spouse will stop his affair.
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