A husband's affair might bring drastic changes
in couple's sex life. In fact, affair problem is sex problem, therefore
couple's sexual behavior change is necessary in order to lead a happy couple
life. Especially, paraphilia is a symptom when hurt mind focuses on sex and if
not properly dealt with, it will lead into a worsened situation.
Now, let's consider wife's abnormal sex desire
in the case of husband affair. In most of the cases, a wife tends to be passive
or not interested in sex. However, an abnormal sex desire occurs because of the
fact that her husband has enjoyed sex with another woman.
As a countermeasure, a wife would ask for active
sex and tries to have joy in the sex with the husband. She will find different
ways together with her husband an only after sex, will she feel relaxed and
comfortable. Of course, the frequency of the sex is increased as this would
repeat itself.
As for the husband, he complies with her
because he is sorry or he feels guilty and in some extent, will feel joyful.
However, he is not be passionate nor aggressive as this sex is already familiar
to him. When this happens compared to wife who is trying to have pleasing sex,
husband will be passive and soon wife will find the sex with her husband is not
interesting or not pleasing, which in turn, she might be looking for another to
fulfill her sex desire. Or the opposite might happen where the husband will
find the sex dull and will repeat affair again.
In conclusion, if the wife's paraphilia is left
untreated, either or both the husband and wife will have affairs. This will
bring the ultimate chaos and a disaster. So to prevent this the wife has to
acknowledge that her sex desire is wrong and has to understand sex properly. The
wife has to reform her mind and body to feel the pleasure of sex and to learn
how to enjoy sex, lead the husband and to feel the orgasm. In addition she has
to treat her psychological hurt and to recover happy couple life. In this way, the
husband and wife can only live a happy life - sharing, caring and passionate.
Husband has to know that the wife has abnormal
sex desire. He has to try for her
sexual pleasure and orgasm. Also he has to try
to treat her psychological hurt.
Husband has to make a change so that they can
be happy and enjoy sex, ask for forgiveness sincerely and in the end to lead a
happy couple life. Both the husband and the wife has to make effort. Otherwise,
difficult times will come again. Changes from both the husband and the wife is
a Must to recover form affair and to prevent further catastrophes.
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