Without Couple Happiness after They Are Back Together, A Counselling is Meaningless

In a couple problem related counseling, getting them together comes as priority. It usually naturally happen that husband wife come together. Helping the couple to stick together for developing and maintain their happiness is the most important thing for any couple.

Therefore, the counseling session for a couple should be as follows:

1. To analyze the couple problem,

2. To implement a program after they are united

3. To make couple happy and to let them maintain happiness.

Most of the failure that happens in an affair problem is when this happiness making process is disregarded. In a couple problem, it is so painstaking and urgent that the aim of the counseling is usually set to getting-them-back-together-again. This is something that can be achieved without difficulty.

The problem is that once the couple is back, it seems the problem has gone away as if nothing has ever happened. One might think that reunion can solve the problem but truth of the fact is that it is not so. After the couple is back together, there are things to be seriously deliberated.

Once united, how can they be happy again? This is something to be seriously dealt with. Reunited couple, after a couple problem is not same as they were before. They have to know that the idea of each other should be changed. Therefore, once they are united, new relation has to be set up and they need to get prepared to be happy together, otherwise the happiness will not last long.

Couple problem occurring after reunion brings larger difficulties and the required solution and effort is more than double. Therefore without getting ready for couple happiness, the future cost will be enormous.

Let's be reminded that

1. First is the couple reunion but couple happiness after this has to be included and considered during the counseling.

2. This is why an expert is needed. Happiness after the couple reunion has to be in the course of counseling solution.