Why Is Rage Treatment Important?

Rage is the very first thing that the cheated spouse goes through when the affair of the other spouse is disclosed. The rage is from the deep sense of betrayal and hurt and it affects psychologically more than anger.

Rage treatment is the priority in dealing an affair problem. When rage is treated, following solution is rather easy. However, when the rage from affair is left untreated it will go on till the end of one's life. Rage should be treated so that the cheated can gain calmness and strength to solve the affair problem.

Rage from affair is "Post Traumatic Stress" and is expressed outwardly or reserved within oneself depending on the personality. In any case, the rage is sever and extremely painful.

Usually, couple crisis occur because of rage that lasts from several months to years. No matter how long the rage has lasted, it has to be treated and once treated, it provides a key in solving affair problem. Rage treatment is that much important. However, the period of the affair solution will depend on how long and how much the rage has been.

How the rage is expressed differs. Some will attack the spouse in quarrel and fight, some might blame oneself and feel depressed or helpless, or others might give up and live separate lives or has whatever attitude. All this is a starting point of divorce or separation. Rage do not disappear even after several years and it will be such a conflicting and hard time. General psychological treatment or couple counselling do not treat rage completely. This is what really happens even now at this moment.

Rage from affair is both a couple problem and "Post Traumatic Stress." As such, it cannot be dealt in general psychology centers or in a couple counseling. Such general rage treatments as crying out, singing, roll play or even cursing do not give nothing but a temporary effect. In reality these methods do not provide treatment for rage from affair. For the treatment of rage from affair, understanding of the cheating spouse has to be made. Understanding why the cheated feels raged and looking back at oneself has to be done. In other words, rage from affair is not a psychological or mental problem. It is something in between, something complex and real.

Through "Principle of Affair" that we have developed after counseling thousands of couples over the last decade, we have found by explaining and making the rage understood helped the rage from affair treated. Rage from Affair that has lasted over several years were treated through psychological calmness and stability process. Those who treated could not believe that they do not rage any more. This was all possible because of the "Principle of Affair".

We dare say that the Rage from Affair can be treated rather easily. There are clients who think that this is impossible and unbelievable. However, there are so many who has experienced this and in reality most of cases were successful.  

One has to have a peace of mind before solving the affair problem or before deciding divorce. This will allow the raged to lead a normal daily life and also will provide the base in solving the problem. With the rage treated, one can make clearer decision, be it divorce or not.

Rage treatment is priority before making any decisions otherwise you might be still suffering whatever life you choose to have. Everyone deserves to be free from rage and be happy.