Is Affair Sex Romantic, a Love?

Extramarital Affair is not of something uncommon anymore. It is seen easily everywhere. Furthermore, as woman gets more involved in social activities, affair is also seen in woman in their 30 and 40's. Affair sex seems more romantic as it is hidden and secretive. Some claims that "Affair is Love" others say "Affair is a crime of Adultery," “I met him at the workplace. He was married and I was to be married to my fiance. I just had crush on him. He was the man I dreamed of but he was married and I had to get married with feelings for him inside my heart. I could not resist and I came to wait desperately for spending time with him. I had no time to feel sorry for my fiance and we became close.”

It became an affair. We loved each other cheating each other's spouses. I always struggled between the reality and desire. We were living a life with our spouses but were having sex with each other. It's been already four years now and I have tried so many times to stop this but it is impossible. What should I do now?"

In South Korea, Affair is defined as Crime of Adultery by law under certain circumstances. There are rigorous disputes as to abolish Adultery Law. In other countries the cases is dealt differently. Is love after marriage a true love? Or is it just another flare of desire? The answer is if you are cheating, it is love but if you are cheated it is an affair. Man and woman shows different tendencies when it comes to affair matters. When asked of experience of affair, almost half of the married man said affirmative. On the other hand woman replied nay to themselves but said that almost half of them knew a woman who had an affair.

Affair counterpart is rather of an age but man preferred younger woman and woman older man. Man would find woman through internet chatting sites but woman found man at the workplace or near her.

Affair sex is more thrilling as it is more private and secretive. When asked about the action to take when the affair is revealed, most of the replies chose to be flexible. Only 10% answered "divorce." Other answers were like, to see how it revolves and to forgive if it is the first time. Extramarital affair can be everywhere but still fidelity matters for married couples. The importance of the mutual trust really matters these days.