Every clients have their own stories. In fact,
finding the core of the problem of each case gives more than half of the answer
to the solution. However, most of the time, this core of the problem is
dismissed or disregarded as the ongoing rage, troubles and hurt seem to be too much.
It makes it very difficult to find a practical solution method. Also the
solution differs depending on the situation whether the cheating is still going
on or not.
If the cheating is still going on, the solution
must be designed very carefully, the situation needs to be analyzed in detail
so that the cheating can be stopped and the solution has to include the things that
can happen after the cheating is stopped. If the solution is wrong, it will
bring counter-effect and will become waste of time and money.
In addition, the core of the problem has to be
found. By this very core, the problem of affair and achieving couple happiness
can start. Without finding the core of the problem, any method will eventually prove
to be worthless.
From the counseling sessions, there are a lot
efforts lost because the core of the problem was not found and the couple
situation became worse and the couple would find it impossible and give up
solving their problems. There is no couple problem that cannot be solved. However
impossible it may look, it can be easily solved once the core of the problem is
found.
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