Children's Hurts Has To Be Treated In An Affair Problem

As affair experts, we always feel sorry when the children are left untreated in an affair problem. Many clients are now under troubles and pains and their problems are solved towards couple happiness. Some get divorced but still they are aware of how to become happy themselves alone. Of course it all depends heavily whether the couple gets therapy together or not what the outcome of the therapy may be. However, it is the hurts of the children that is left behind.

Sometime ago, there was a TV interview. There has been some requests from the TV stations for interviews and so forth but after an interview with a cable networks last January, we were very disappointed. We have made up our mind to refrain from interviews and rather focus on providing information. This one, however, we had to think hard as it dealt with the children but we declined in the end. In a TV show, an affair problem appears as a limited and simple problem of couple problem. It is impossible to provide a proper solution through one shot of air. It will only create gossip, a social issue only. Couple happiness or the children problem related is not well dealt with.

During the period of confrontation and pain, the children get hurt and painful and nobody notices this. Wife is mad because of her hurts and rage and has no room to care after the children. The husband denies and blames the couple crisis which in fact has been brought by his own affair and he has no regard towards the children.

The problem here is that the children are exposed to couple fights, curse words and words of family breakage and divorce. They are becoming distorted by the hurt and the rage of their parents.

A month ago, we had warned the husband and wife that they need to take care of their children first but the children were already hurt and they were starting to show rage against their father and mother. After only that, this couple came to realize that they need to make effort for the psychological treatment of their children. When there is an affair problem, the husband and the wife shows confronts and rages and they are in crisis. It is a big misunderstanding and misjudgment that they think their children do not know. In fact, they do know that there is a big problem between their parents and they do know exactly what that is. They have no place to discuss and is under the fear that their family will break. They will blame their parents.

In reality, those divorced do not think much of the hurts that their children has received. These children, with their hurts deep in their hearts, will show problems when they grow up and become a member of the society. When something happens to the parents, the children gets psychological and mental hurts. As they get older, they might be faced with such problems as character disorder, complexes, and is likely to have abnormal family or social life. They will be faced with pains. The reason why the first thing to do in an affair solution is to find calmness of mind through rage treatment is not only to treat the pain and the rage of the adults but also for the children's rage treatment as well.

Children have done nothing wrong. They have to be protected by their parents and it is the duty of the parents that they lead a bright and right mindedness. It is the faults of the parents to lead and leave their children in their hurts because of their divorce or affair problems. The psychological hurts and rage is naturally treated when the couple happiness is made. Everyone should be reminded that it is the responsibility of each parents to make the happiness of their children and not to spoil them. Therefore, those who gets treated with the rage and hurts and help the children to be psychologically treated are wise and responsible parents. It is very wrong to remain painful and enduring which will let the children live with unsolved rage and hurt. So be wise. Be good parents.