Happiness for husband and wife

Both the cheater and the cheated are lonely, no matter how long they have been married together. After the husband’s affair is revealed, the wife undergoes a tunnel of pain but once treated with rage, she regains her pride and confidence and starts a new life. She dismisses the jealousy and bitterness.

The wife stops her interest in her husband. Affair does not stimulate the husband any more. An affair is thrilling only when there is a wife! The husband loses his interest in his extramarital affair as he sees his wife having her own life, making herself beautiful and happy without depending on her husband. Don’t be influenced by your partner but be an influence! Of course, this is what husband and wife both want but they do not know how they have to approach each other and their relationship gets cold and indifferent as time goes by. Finally they find their relationship meaningless which usually ends up as divorce and separation.

There could be some lessons learnt while surviving the trials between couple. However the sense of loneliness still remains. Wives gets out for shopping every day, meet up with friends or even making boyfriends, but still cannot avoid the emptiness. Same goes for the husband.

It is not easy for any woman to do away with what they have accomplished for so many years. For husbands, ironically it is their own wife that they find it most difficult or easy to deal with. Whether they admit it or not, it can be said that they are addicted to their wives.

However, many women tend to think that their husbands are capable of deserting family and live by themselves happily. They also think that when men have an extramarital affair, they love the other person and they shared something that cannot be shared with their wives, but what they do not know is that every time they have sex with the other woman, they tend to feel empty and uneasy. Some couples seem to be leading happy lives as they possess same hobby but the truth of the fact is that most of the relations are empty inside. I dare say that the couple who quarrel everyday is more passionate and they tend to crave something from each other and their lives are far much more interesting than those couples that seem to be peaceful.

When there is no problem regarding sex between the husband and wife, the husband will feel free from sex and will not crave for other sex partner. The wife also will feel happy and optimistic about life even though there is no sex. Sure, most of the couple need to learn about proper sex, not only for others but for oneself.

Every woman needs to learn about her body and sex and most importantly, learn why a woman need to live a life so dedicated and sacrificing, and why she needs a man in her life.