A thought after a sex scandal

I hear sex scandals almost every day. The Netizen responds saying this or that to those scandals. I believe that it's time our language should be more decent and sophisticated in dealing with these kind of matters. Time to upgrade ourselves. Nobody seems to be brave enough to openly discuss on sex or maybe there is no professional experts on this matter. I believe the general concepts on child abuse, rape, and other sex related crimes have to be changed. Now it is time we think about why such crimes are committed, why they cannot be dismissed from our society.

It is likely that those who cannot refrain or control themselves from strong sexual desire can be sex addicts. This cannot be noticed easily. Those men who commit such crimes tend to think they are machos and have strong sex appetites. If there are repeated and frequent arousal for sex, then they are the symptoms of sex addiction. One cannot imagine how various symptoms of sex addictions show and that there are so many remedies, as they are accompanied by strong pleasure and lust.

We will have to be familiar with the sex addiction. Thanks to Tiger Woods. However, it is not known how he was treated and what he thought about the 'disease.' Indeed, there are so many sex addicts but they do not recognize it themselves. They tend to hide it and find it embarrassing. Only after an incident, they find themselves addicted but refrain from being treated, thinking that they do not want to be taken as a psycho.

Addictions are addictions, just like alcohol or drug addictions. The problem here is that there is no expert or facilities only for sex addiction. There are sex addicts increasing in number everyday but there is no solution whatsoever or anyone who can understand this problem. Let's say that there is an expert but realistically speaking he or she will be regarded somebody perverted. It wouldn’t matter how much cautions in terms of taking care of children’s safety and security. It is almost impossible to control children’s daily routine. Also it is not right to isolate your children from playing with other children in the name of protecting your own children.  

Love is amazing! And we have the ability to detect the love from others. A true care and love can only heal and treat other's hurt. Those with hurts from childhood would not mature themselves enough to have the abnormal sex tendency or desire while suppressing their desires and temper. I believe that this is the only way to keep my children and my family safe. There are problematic adults but there are no problematic children. We need to define why and when the sex addiction started and find out if there anything else beyond the lust. It is time we need to speak up about this. Sex problems have to be openly discussed and this is the only way to keep our children and family safe. When families are happy then the communities become happy too.

Sex is important. It is so for both man and woman and as long as they live together, they need to understand each other and accept the differences.  A thirsty person should not be given with bread. A sacrifice mislead is meaningless and only painful.

Where have you learned about sex? From internet? Play boy magazines? Experience with friends or from your boyfriend or girlfriend?

In most cases women learn sex from men who have learned from appropriate sources. This is why women are dependent upon men. Men do not know what women want. They only crave for what his thing wants. They trust in their ability and strength to endure a certain time. For some women, this is exactly what they want but for others it is just the opposite. Anyhow, men do not interpret the screams of pain as pain. They take it as they like. This is why sex has to be educated properly and specialized.

For this, understanding sex is a priority not only for men but also for women for real people in normal world. A proper sex involves the psychology of what my man wants and what my lady wants. This will in the end prevent sex related crimes or divorce. With the proper sex knowledge, it is easy to see what the problem is from a sex scandal article.